Showing posts with label Self pity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self pity. Show all posts

Saturday, 21 November 2015

It's One of Those Days...

Today started off rough. I got up at 10am this morning and every bone in my body ached. My mind was in a dull fog and I had to shower and be ready to go out with my husband to meet friends for Dim Sum in 15 minutes. Not sure how, but I made it and we got to the restaurant early.

Our friends are elderly and Lois had recently been diagnosis as having Parkinson's. I wasn't sure how well she had taken the news, but my fears were in vain. She and her husband, Bob, carried on conversation as if nothing had happened, and I began to realize that just because she had a terminal disease, it did not define who she was as a friend. Her physical weakness was evident, but her spirit was radiant.

It made me think of what I struggle with and how often I surcome to self pity. Self pity is a weakness that is easy to overcome. All it takes is seeing someone else who has a bigger struggle than you do, defeat that voice in their head.

What are you listening to today? I know, for myself, I have one less voice rattling around in my head. Today, self pity is not going to win.